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Posts from the ‘surrender’ Category

Stoking The Fires ReDux!

“Originally posted in January, 3 years ago, we recently have had issues surrounding consent in our community. I have a piece of advice for all who play with resistance. Tops: understand that when your partner stops resisting,

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Coffee and Kink

There I was, in Wicked Grounds, San Francisco’s wonderful community kinky coffee shop holding my cup of cappuccino. I had 30 minutes before I was due at Fakir’s Piercing School less than a block away. Crowded with kinksters, only one table had an open chair. A young couple were already sitting there. I asked if...

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Different Loving Too

Dr. Gloria Brame’s “Different Loving Too” is the follow up study of BDSM through the eyes and hearts of many of its practitioners, followers and devotees of her groundbreaking first volume published in 1993 by Random House. Now available on Amazon, intimate.....

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Equality without Exception!

What a marvelous sunny happy day in San Francisco! A gorgeous Sunday afternoon for a long parade filled with a joyousness I hope will lead to even more progress! Yes, Love wins! Love is love.

A bit before that momentous decision, I was interviewed by Woody and the Beast from Nashville, Tennessee for their podcast, called KinkyCast.com ...

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