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Posts from the ‘Master’ Category

Kinky? Who? Me?

Long ago, Harry, a well-spoken man in his 40s, sat down in my office to tell me that the new woman in his life revealed to him that she ...

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Stoking The Fires ReDux!

“Originally posted in January, 3 years ago, we recently have had issues surrounding consent in our community. I have a piece of advice for all who play with resistance. Tops: understand that when your partner stops resisting,

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Coffee and Kink

There I was, in Wicked Grounds, San Francisco’s wonderful community kinky coffee shop holding my cup of cappuccino. I had 30 minutes before I was due at Fakir’s Piercing School less than a block away. Crowded with kinksters, only one table had an open chair. A young couple were already sitting there. I asked if...

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My New Key!

Fakir and I returned from teaching and leading a big hook pull energy ritual on the beach for Suscon in Italy just in time for Folsom Street Fair! In 20 years I only missed one Fair. What I did not know is that the Grand Master of the world's biggest leather event, Demetri Moshoyannis, would honor Race Bannon and me with....

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