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Posts from the ‘About Me’ Category

Kinky? Who? Me?

Long ago, Harry, a well-spoken man in his 40s, sat down in my office to tell me that the new woman in his life revealed to him that she ...

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Lighting the Dark

What a year this has been for all of us! Politics aside, I have never felt more confident that I am on my true path than I do now...

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For the Love of Ritual

It is time again! I am ready for  Burning Man. Playa life, art, community and rituals. Yes,rituals. Do you know that this year’s  huge desert  gathering  is dedicated  to Radical Ritual?

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A Slave, A Leatherman, A Fetishist/Slut, A French Maid and A Witness

Every Intensive scene dynamics segment is improvised, a demonstration in the moment of the various flavors of kink I embrace. It is also a bit of a review of the hands-on we have shared with the students all weekend. I want the participants to feel....

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