“Originally posted in January, 3 years ago, we recently have had issues surrounding consent in our community. I have a piece of advice for all who play with resistance. Tops: understand that when your partner stops resisting,
There I was, in Wicked Grounds, San Francisco’s wonderful community kinky coffee shop holding my cup of cappuccino. I had 30 minutes before I was due at Fakir’s Piercing School less than a block away. Crowded with kinksters, only one table had an open chair. A young couple were already sitting there. I asked if...