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Remembering The Future…

...where it all comes together! At the Citadel for an evening with newcomers to kink, my 50 shades or rather, brilliant colors of real BDSM class is about to start. As I look at my audience’s inquisitive faces, I see how the pieces of my own energetic puzzle fit together. No, this was not going to be another technique presentation. It’s not what we do, it’s HOW we do it! And WHY.

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Spring Cleaning

At the beginning of every Intensive, we share what brought us to Kink. Many of my students have memories of early BDSM fantasies triggered by magazines or films, cherished during puberty, sometimes sooner. That was not my case. My fantasies were of romantic love, being swept away by my Prince Charmant. And then.........

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Growing Pains?

Fakir and I returned from our journey to Southwest Leather Conference in Phoenix, Arizona full of love for the tribe that embraced and honored us as the elders that we have become. Preparing the 100 images presentation illustrating our talk was more than a trip down memory lane. It brought our personal journeys together in a burgeoning culture that certainly has recently exploded....

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The Gifts of Play

Looking back at 2014 I can only give my thanks. I travelled to Mexico with my husband Fakir to witness the reclaiming of ancient facial piercings in the Latino culture, shared my love of ritual play at...

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