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My New Key!

Fakir and I returned from teaching and leading a big hook pull energy ritual on the beach for Suscon in Italy just in time for Folsom Street Fair! In 20 years I only missed one Fair. What I did not know is that the Grand Master of the world's biggest leather event, Demetri Moshoyannis, would honor Race Bannon and me with....

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Extreme Ritual Art

Every summer since 1996, I have joined my kinky tribe in the woods to receive two piercings on my upper chest and, tethered to a rope or the firm grip of a friend’s hand, I pull. Hard. Harder. Why? To me it is a body meditation, an energy prayer, a way to re-center and be still, a ritual of the heart...

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Equality without Exception!

What a marvelous sunny happy day in San Francisco! A gorgeous Sunday afternoon for a long parade filled with a joyousness I hope will lead to even more progress! Yes, Love wins! Love is love.

A bit before that momentous decision, I was interviewed by Woody and the Beast from Nashville, Tennessee for their podcast, called ...

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Remembering The Future…

...where it all comes together! At the Citadel for an evening with newcomers to kink, my 50 shades or rather, brilliant colors of real BDSM class is about to start. As I look at my audience’s inquisitive faces, I see how the pieces of my own energetic puzzle fit together. No, this was not going to be another technique presentation. It’s not what we do, it’s HOW we do it! And WHY.

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