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Stoking The Fires ReDux!

“Originally posted in January, 3 years ago, we recently have had issues surrounding consent in our community. I have a piece of advice for all who play with resistance. Tops: understand that when your partner stops resisting,

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Coffee and Kink

There I was, in Wicked Grounds, San Francisco’s wonderful community kinky coffee shop holding my cup of cappuccino. I had 30 minutes before I was due at Fakir’s Piercing School less than a block away. Crowded with kinksters, only one table had an open chair. A young couple were already sitting there. I asked if...

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Different Loving Too

Dr. Gloria Brame’s “Different Loving Too” is the follow up study of BDSM through the eyes and hearts of many of its practitioners, followers and devotees of her groundbreaking first volume published in 1993 by Random House. Now available on Amazon, intimate.....

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From the “City of Wounded Boys and Sexual Warriors”

December 1st is World AIDS Day. I have been invited to Monday evening’s gala, Light in the Grove. A festive thank you for my participation in“Unsung Heroes,” an HIV Story Project’s film in progress. It honors the San Francisco Leather Community's response during the 80s and 90s caring for those whose lives were stolen. What is remembered lives!

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