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From the “City of Wounded Boys and Sexual Warriors”

December 1st is World AIDS Day. I have been invited to Monday evening’s gala, Light in the Grove. A festive thank you for my participation in“Unsung Heroes,” an HIV Story Project’s film in progress. It honors the San Francisco Leather Community's response during the 80s and 90s caring for those whose lives were stolen. What is remembered lives!

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My New Key!

Fakir and I returned from teaching and leading a big hook pull energy ritual on the beach for Suscon in Italy just in time for Folsom Street Fair! In 20 years I only missed one Fair. What I did not know is that the Grand Master of the world's biggest leather event, Demetri Moshoyannis, would honor Race Bannon and me with....

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Extreme Ritual Art

Every summer since 1996, I have joined my kinky tribe in the woods to receive two piercings on my upper chest and, tethered to a rope or the firm grip of a friend’s hand, I pull. Hard. Harder. Why? To me it is a body meditation, an energy prayer, a way to re-center and be still, a ritual of the heart...

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Equality without Exception!

What a marvelous sunny happy day in San Francisco! A gorgeous Sunday afternoon for a long parade filled with a joyousness I hope will lead to even more progress! Yes, Love wins! Love is love.

A bit before that momentous decision, I was interviewed by Woody and the Beast from Nashville, Tennessee for their podcast, called ...

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